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Twenty-Seven Ways to Practice Your Sight Words
Diana Bass

Bicycle and Pedestrian Safety and Courtesy
By Officer Jerry Jones - School Resource Officer

Heavy back packs can harm your child’s back.
By Dr. Neil Szeryk

Putting homework in its place
By Tanya Donaghey

Children and their responsibility to household chores
By Mary Ann Martin

 

 

 

 

 

TWENTY-SEVEN WAYS TO PRACTICE YOUR SIGHT WORDS

Diana Bass

1.                   Paint your words with shaving cream.

2.                 Glitter write your words.

3.                 See how many times you can write your words in one minute.

4.                 Use coins to form your words.

5.                 Make a path with your bike/scooter in the shape of your words.

6.                 Type your words on the computer using five different fonts.

7.                 Go to www.puzzlemaker.com and make a wordsearch with the words.

8.                 Go to www.puzzlemaker.com and make a letter tiles puzzle.

9.                 Make your words out of playdoh.

10.              Use your favorite snack to shape your words and eat them.

11.               Write your words in one color and trace over them in more colors.

12.              Find your words in the titles of your movies.

13.              Paint your words on the computer

14.              Use your toys to shape the letters in your words.

15.              Read a book and each time you find one of your words, stand up.

16.              Write your words on paper and then cut them out.

17.              Write your words on small pieces of paper and then put the papers in a bag and then draw them out and read them.

18.              Spell your words on a foggy mirror or window.

19.              Use your family and spell your words with your bodies.

20.            Fold your paper into sections and then write your words with “pizzazz” in squares.

21.              Write your words on little pieces of paper, hold them in your hand and have someone try to guess the words.

22.            Tape-record yourself singing a song with your words

23.            Print your words on someone’s back.

24.            Use markers and make a pattern with colors out of your words.

25.            Print your words on paper, cut them out, and fly them on a paper airplane.

26.            Play “Hangman” with them.

27.            Make two copies of each word on 3 X 5 cards and play “Concentration”.

Heavy back packs can harm your child’s back.

Have you ever really looked at the posture of an 80 pound sixth grader bent under a 40-pound backpack? The weight of the backpack forces the child to hunch over with shoulders rounded and head jutting forward. Over time, the muscles adapt to permanent poor posture, often leading to back problems and other injuries. For many, lifetime back pain can begin in elementary school. "In my own practice, I have noticed a marked increase in the number of young children who are complaining about back, neck and shoulder pain," said Dr. Neil Szeryk, of The Chiropractic Connection "The first question I ask these patients is, 'Do you carry a backpack to school?' Almost always, the answer is 'yes.'"

This new back pain trend among youngsters isn't surprising when you consider the disproportionate amounts of weight they carry in their backpacks - often slung over just one shoulder. A recent study found that the average child carries a backpack that would be the equivalent of a 39-pound burden for a 176-pound man, or a 29-pound load for a 132-pound woman. Of those children carrying heavy backpacks to school, 60 percent had experienced back pain as a result. Other studies have shown that slinging a backpack over one shoulder could exacerbate the curvature of the spine in scoliosis patients. Preliminary results of studies being conducted in France show that the longer a child wears a backpack, the longer it takes for a curvature or deformity of the spine to correct itself. The results of these types of studies are especially important as more and more school districts - many of them in urban areas - remove lockers from the premises, forcing students to carry their books with them all day long.

What Can You Do?

*Pay attention to common sense advice like simply lightening the load. Teaching kids that they don’t have to carry everything they own will help, but the fact is, until kids all carry one-pound indestructible computers, backpacks are not going to shrink much.

*Make sure your child's backpack weighs no more than 5 to 10 percent of his or her body weight. A heavier backpack will cause your child to bend forward in an attempt to support the weight on his or her back, rather than on the shoulders, by the straps.

*The backpack should never hang more than four inches below the waistline. A backpack that hangs too low increases the weight on the shoulders, causing your child to lean forward when walking.

*A backpack with individualized compartments helps in positioning the contents most effectively. Make sure that pointy or bulky objects are packed away from the area that will rest on your child's back.

*Bigger is not necessarily better. The more room there is in a backpack, the more your child will carry-and the heavier the backpack will be.

*Urge your child to wear both shoulder straps. Lugging the backpack around by one strap can cause the disproportionate shift of weight to one side, leading to neck and muscle spasms, as well as low-back pain.

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Putting homework in its place
 
Ensuring that your child completes his or her homework can be a challenge. According to Tanya Donaghey, owner of Tutoring 101 in Allen, having a strategy and routine in place will help make homework a positive experience – for everyone in the family. Tanya recommends the following:

  1. Determine the best time for homework: It’s a good idea to select a regular time for homework that is workable for everyone – both the family’s schedule and your child’s needs. Think about your child’s temperament. Does he or she need some “down time?” Does he or she need to run around and get rid of some pent up energy after school? Homework time should not be a punishment. If you can find the right time with your child – and be consistent about it – the whole process will be more peaceful, as well as more efficient and productive.
  2. Establish a homework station: Decide with your child where the best place is for completing homework. A desk or table in your child’s room is ideal because it will foster the independence that you are going to expect when your child reaches middle or high school. Also, children who are distracted by noise and movement will have an easier time focusing in a location that’s not part of the family living space.
  3. Provide Direction – but not directions: Many children do need help with homework, but it is important to help in ways that will lead to independence. Consider this: Before they’ve even glanced at the directions, kids often will show parents a worksheet and say, I don’t get it.” Kids know what they are doing; why spend time figuring out directions if you can get Mom or Dad to explain what to do? In these cases, rather than reading out the directions to yourself and then explaining them, ask your child to read the directions aloud to you. This strategy enables kids to hear the directions, which often all that’s needed to make the assignment clear.
  4. Create a homework toolbox: As a parent, its easy to become frustrated when – 15 minutes into homework time, with no visible progress made – you’re told, “I was looking for a pencil!” A homework toolbox will help solve that problem. All you need is an inexpensive plastic container with a lid that’s a couple inches deep and big enough to hold 8 _ x 11”sheets of paper. Together with your child, fill the box with standard supplies- paper, pencils, an eraser, sharpener, ruler, markers, highlighter, glue, text book holder and any other homework tool that your child many need to complete assignments. Then declare this “anti-walking” toolbox a permanent part of the homework station.
     
    However you help with homework, don’t lose sight of whose assignment it really is. Editing, rewriting, and changing answers may enhance the quality of the work but not the learning experience. Keep in mind that while we all want success for our children, the ultimate goal is to allow the child to build confidence in his or her own skills and ability.
     
    If you would like additional information contact Tanya at Tutoring 101 (972-359-0222)

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Children and their responsibility to household chores

Children start out with a natural curiosity to want to help mom and dad, but as they get older, this desire soon leaves as they find other things to occupy their time. Things such as friends, video games, television shows, reading a good book, talking on the phone, finishing some school project, extra-curricular activities, rehearsals, and the list continues to grow the older they become.

How do parents get their children to pick up after themselves? Mary Ann Martin, owner of Domestic Goddess cleaning service, says there are two approaches - for young children (2-6) and older children (6 +)

For the young child Mary Ann recommends:

1.      Starting when they are young and enthusiastic. Start when they desire to help mom and dad. Even if they may make a bigger mess, take the time to show them how to do it right. If children learn the phrase "later" from mom and dad, it is only natural that they will develop a subconscious "later" attitude. Children learn by example - give them a positive example from the get-go!

2.      Find chores that are age appropriate for the child and do not expect them to get it right the first time. Heck, don't even expect them to get it right the hundredth time. Children are just starting to develop their motor skills and need time to practice them. By allowing them to make a bed that looks like the dog just trampled across it, and praising them for a job well done, you are instilling in them a sense of pride. A pride in taking care of their things and you are instilling in them an "I can do it" attitude.

3.      If your children cannot remember to do their chores on their own, consider gentle reminders. You can simply say something like, "Okay everyone, it's time to get busy on our chores. Tim, you make the beds in every room. Emily, you vacuum the rugs in all the rooms. Trish, you take the dishes out of the dishwasher, put them away and put in the next load of dishes. And, I will mop the floor and do the laundry." What this does, is show everyone that a clean house takes teamwork and teamwork gets the job done in half the time.

4.      Don't stereotype chores as male and female chores. Boredom easily sets in when a child has to stick to only one chore or certain types of chores.

5.      Consider a chart that tells each child what he or she is to do on a certain day.

6.      Offer an allowance or reward system.

7.      Make it clear that no one gets to hang out with their friends or do extracurricular activities until their chores are done.

For the Older Child

According to Mary Ann, the issue of housework gets trickier if you are just introducing it for the first time to an older child. Bad habits have already been developed.

Fifty years ago, according to several studies, nearly all children helped maintain the house - free of charge. Twenty years ago, kids still did chores, but small payments lightened the task.

Today, all that remains of that tradition is the weekly payoff. Most young people are busier than ever - with soccer, schoolwork, and music lessons. Parents are left rolling their eyes in despair at unmade beds and mounds of laundry. But while children today exhibit few domestic skills, many may have gotten a helping hand from adults who have acted as tireless chauffeurs and bankers and rarely demanded anything in exchange.

"The concept of service is gone and financial control has virtually disappeared," says William Damon, director of the Center for the Study of Human Development at Brown University in Providence, R.I., and author of "Greater Expectations" (Free Press). Professor Damon points out that more families can afford to hire help as well as give children spending money. But, he adds, "I believe it's a loss of a sense of what's good for children. We used to have a sense that children build character by serving their community. Now, there is a sense that what children need is free time for their friends and special lessons."

How to Set Up a Routine

When considering how to lower the boom on cleaning a room or mowing a lawn, Maryann recommends that the first, most important step is to establish a routine. Here are some tips to help in setting one up:

·         Involve the whole family in choosing both chores and consequences.

·         Create simple, clear visual aids that remove ambiguities and nudge children into fulfilling responsibilities.

·         Set deadlines for completion, with clear consequences for missing the moment.

·         Take time for training.

·         Make sure responsibilities are age appropriate.

·         Be sure to praise a job well-done.

·         Be consistent.

·         And most important: Never do the chore for the child.

Mary Ann adds, even if your family is fortunate to have a cleaning service do the bulk of the house work it is still very important to teach your children the basics of taking care of their home.

For house cleaning estimates you can reach Mary Ann Martin at 972-783-6685.

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BICYCLE and PEDESTRIAN
SAFETY and COURTESY

Officer Jerry Jones - School Resource Officer

For four years now, I have been teaching “Bicycle/Pedestrian Safety/Courtesy” to our students. Numerous government, medical, and educational studies show that today’s children are overweight and out of shape. So I always encourage the kids to walk or ride their bikes to school. It’s fun, great exercise, and reduces the traffic volume and air pollution.

As we see more and more kids walking and riding bikes or scooters to school, we see more need for the aforementioned lesson. We also thought it wise to forward some information to parents so you can reinforce at home the safety and courtesy lessons your children learn at school.

The traffic laws of the State of Texas permit bicycles to be ridden on sidewalks and this is where we encourage children to ride. We want to keep children and cars as far apart as possible. State law also requires bicyclists to follow same laws that apply to motor vehicles; stop at stop signs, etc…

I try to discourage kids from riding in alleys because they are dangerous. Someone backing a car out of a driveway can’t see a bicyclist in the alley because of the fences. We want the kids to get off of their bicycle and walk it across the intersections. If a car looks like it might run into them, it is much easier to drop the bike and run than it is to suddenly try to peddle faster. We can replace a bike but not a child. But the most important safety item of all is the helmet. A cut or scrape or even a broken bone will heal. Brain damage is either permanent or fatal. Helmets are inexpensive and even look cool these days.

A common courtesy for pedestrians and bicyclists is for everyone to stay to the right – just as cars do on the roadways. This will allow for better and safer movement of foot and bike traffic. When slower pedestrians are overtaken by faster bicyclists the bikers can pass the walkers on the left. Most bicyclists know to warn the pedestrians of their presence in some way. An audible warning device such as a bell or horn is most common. Some riders use a tradition started on the ski slopes and say “On your left” to let the walker know they will pass them on their left.

Don’t you just hate all the traffic in the mornings? The more people we can get to walk or ride bikes, the fewer cars there will be on the road. And while we’re cutting down on traffic congestion and pollution we’re getting some exercise. If everyone follows a few simple safety and courtesy guidelines it will be a “win – win” situation for everyone.

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